Yesterday while having her mid-morning snack, R announced that she wanted to call her Grammie and Grampie, so I said okay. We called, and she told them she wanted Grampie to come pick her up. They were doing work out in the yard, so we got her decked out in outdoor clothes and boots and she went over and helped Grampie build a sandbox and move around dirt in his garden.
RUS stayed at home with me--he hadn't yet had a nap, and I wanted to be sure he got a good one in. (J was at an all-day work event so he wasn't home). Because the day was downright balmy and just such a nice day for being outside, RUS and I walked down to the park. He is still unsure about walking on grass (he will stand there and fuss until I come hold his hand!) but he is a pro at walking on the sidewalk. We had a great time at the park--he
loves climbing the play structure and going down the slide--and then came home and got lunch, nap, and otherwise just really had a good time together.
It was great to spend a day with him! Most of the time having two kids is great because the kids play together and they are just so cute, BUT I do feel as if I often don't have the chance to really focus on RUS the way I did on R when she was this same age.
Things he did yesterday that blew me away:
1) When helping R on the potty, I try to come up with things to keep him busy so he doesn't come in the bathroom and get his hands all over everything. I told him "Go get Old MacDonald!", referring to a tiny book that is part of a set of 5 books that look identical except they're all different titles ("This Little Piggy," "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star," etc.). I should also mention that the area in front of our living room bookshelf is continually strewn with books because RUS pulls them out and looks at them right there. So this book was buried in the mess somewhere, not right on top. He comes back within a minute (so much for "keeping him busy!") with the exact book, plus
Bambi.
2) He is fearless on the park climber! I mean not daredevil fearless, but he is clearly working out how to use the climber, how to get around on it, and is really intent on figuring it out. This is in contrast to R who was much more careful and often uninterested in trying something new until she had watched someone else--another child, usually--doing it repeatedly.
3) He has learned to push chairs around to climb onto previously inaccessible areas, like our kitchen countertops and the back of the couch. We really have to keep our eyes on him at all times!
4) His two favorite books right now are
Llama Llama Red Pajama, and
Mama, Where Are You? He walks around saying "mama, mama, mama" asking for one of those two books, usually
Mama, Where Are You?, and will read it over and over and over again. I tried hiding it the other night because I'd already read it 5 times in a row but he wasn't having any of it.
5) He is great at nodding his head yes or shaking his head no, and it is
so cute. He is very clear about what he wants and does not want.
6) At one point I was folding laundry and about to take a pile of washcloths to the linen closet. As I was getting up, I said to RUS, "We're going to go have a snack but first I'm going to put these washcloths in the closet." He immediately--before I could even pick up the pile of washcloths--ran to the linen closet and began pounding on it. It's amazing to me what he picks up on and seems aware of.
7) Here's a video of the face he makes when "blowing" on his cereal or any other food that's too warm to eat right away. (This was the sixth or seventh video and he was getting a little frustrated with us, hence the crying, but you get a good shot of it right at the beginning. It's the funniest face!)